Are you being controlled by your life?
Is it really normal?
No, why should life control you. You are the owner of your life, you have full freedom to choose what you want to do with your life and what you don't. All you need is will power, this is the key to your success. when you will make your mind, that you want something in your life and take serious steps to achieve it, you will defiantly get success. Concentration is another factor. Concentrate 10% on what you want and 90% on how to reach there.